Monogram Etiquette
Monogram Etiquette: A Southern Guide to Timeless Personalization
By Southern Knot
At Southern Knot, we believe a monogram is more than just decoration—it’s a meaningful tradition, a symbol of heritage, and a touch of timeless elegance. Whether you’re personalizing heirloom linens, baby bloomers, or wedding gifts, using proper monogram etiquette ensures every piece feels thoughtful, classic, and beautifully Southern.
Here’s your go-to guide to getting it just right:
Understanding Monogram Styles
Three-Letter Monogram
The most traditional and widely used, this format features the first name initial, larger last name initial, then middle name initial (e.g., Renee' Sanders Scott = RSS).
Ideal for: women, children, bibs, bloomers, blankets, and bags.
Single Letter Monogram
Simple and bold, this uses just the first or last initial (e.g., “A” for Alexander).
Ideal for: classic gifts and accessories for both men and women.
Two-Letter Monogram
Perfect for names without a middle name or a clean, minimal look.
Use the first and last initials (e.g., Renee' Scott = RS).
Ideal for: simple, balanced designs.
Special Monogram Styles
Marriage Monogram
Features the couple’s shared last name initial (center), with her initial on the left and his on the right (e.g., Renee and John Scott = RSJ).
Ideal for: wedding gifts, keepsakes, and home linens.
JR, III, and Generational Monograms
Follow the traditional order: first, last, then middle, and add Jr., II, or III subtly beside or beneath the monogram.
Ideal for: heirloom items that span generations.
Interlocking Elegance
Single-Letter Interlocking Monogram
A graceful take on one initial, often used for a last name in a script or interlocking style.
Ideal for: timeless keepsakes, home accents, and stationery.
Two-Letter Interlocking Monogram
Two graceful initials—typically the first and last—woven together in a classic design (e.g., Madison Taylor = MT).
Ideal for: bridal gifts, linens, and formal heirlooms.
When to Use Each Style
- Traditional Three-Letter Monograms: Perfect for baby gifts and children's clothing.
- Single-Letter Monograms: A safe, classic option for men’s and women’s accessories.
- Marriage Monograms: Best for weddings, shared linens, and family keepsakes.
- Two-Letter Monograms: Great for simpler names or elegant minimalism.
- Interlocking Styles: Adds a refined Southern touch to any gift, especially for weddings or heirlooms.
Final Thoughts from Southern Knot
When in doubt, keep it classic. Southern monograms are made to last—just like a treasured family heirloom. Whether you’re celebrating a newborn, a newlywed, or a meaningful milestone, the right monogram adds timeless charm to every gift.
